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Sam Colt's avatar

Great essay! I think the internet and the culture wars have driven a lot of this contempt as it has turned politics into a consumer choice, a readymade identity, a personal fashion expression. We're not taught to think, but how to react.

The most important question you can ask yourself is: "Why do I think what I think?" Most people don't know the basis of their political beliefs, because social media encourages us to hold them socially and not fundamentally. This can build a distorted sense of self-assuredness that leads to myopia, if not willful ignorance. Nowadays, if I find myself in political discussions, I just ask people pointed questions instead of trying to debate them.

I've touched on similar themes in a series about internet politics if it's of any interest:

https://thatguyfromtheinternet.substack.com/p/everything-is-political-now-but-nothing

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Ellen Gemma's avatar

Wow… this was just great!! I’ve so often felt myself aware of feeling contempt during a conversation with someone whose view I adamantly oppose…quite discomfiting. Sometimes, I’m able to push back the feeling, but not always. I am, however, in a constant personal struggle with wondering how I can disagree with people I do love and admire. I find myself in such a hard place these years in our country as I so wish for us to be a nation of respect and love. I look forward to seeing more of your work!

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